My Writings

DSC_0993 400I’m not a guru. I don’t have all the answers, and you definitely won’t find me on the back of a self-help book, with a smug smile on my face, perfectly conditioned hair, and gloating eyes that say, “you only wish your life were as awesome as mine.” (In reality, my eyes are usually saying, “we just hope we’re not blinking right now.”)

If I seem wise in the ways of dating and relationships and life in general, it’s only because I’ve made pretty much every mistake imaginable. That’s why I created Musings on Live and Love, a group blog where people can share their life lessons, and LemonVibe, an anonymous advice site for both singles and couples. This way, we can learn from each other and maybe even get a chuckle out of our collective idiocy.

Or check out my writings and appearances on other sites:


The Frisky

September 2018 note: The Frisky has been struggling for the past few years, and it looks like they are in the process of rebranding themselves and republishing old articles. As such, many of the links below aren’t currently working. Hopefully, they will be back up in the next few months. If not, I anticipated this happening and previously backed up all the articles I wrote for them, so I’ll just republish them here at some point if need be.

Man Cave Daily

Dear Wendy

Guest Columns

“His Take”

Your Tango

San Diego Entertainer

Living the College Life


Interviews & Media Appearances